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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think your lawyer sounds a bit unprofessional in my opinion.

For him to subliminally flirt w/a client is treading on thin ice.
While he may be just being kind - I get a feeling he is flirting w/you & being inappropriate.

Can you hire another lawyer at this point?
Something tells me that you probably will not exercise this option but I had to suggest  it.

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I'm guessing if we were a fly on the wall, we'd realize OP was interpreting very normal interactions as flirting.  When I worked in retail I once had a guy assume I was flirting because I said "Have a nice day" [/quote]

+1. OP is coming out of a bad relationship and thinks normal niceties are flirting.[/quote]

Nah, I worked in law for a decade. It's entirely possible. Probable, even. A lawyer's main job is manipulation, and someone just out of a relationship is ripe for the picking in that regard. If she's at all attractive, she's probably not wrong that he's flirting. [/quote]

I've been a lawyer for decades and don't agree.  There are absolutely slimy lawyers, just as there are slimy people in every profession.  But if you look at the stuff that OP identified, it's clear that this is in her head.  He is keeping his beard because she complimented him?  As opposed to his wife likes it?  Or he likes it?  Or all his colleagues and neighbors complimented?  Or most of his suits are blue (navy is an incredibly common color)?  OP is attributed very common reactions to her compliments rather than, you know, the wife.[/quote]

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