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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve lived a similar scenario OP, although my son is now 22.  My XH remarried a woman with a child and proceeded to have another child with her and his relationship with my son became very superficial.  After he got remarried my son was no longer a priority and everything became about the blended family.  As smothering as the stepmom is, this issue lies entirely with your XH.

My advice is to not manage their relationship.  This is a choice your XH is making.  Just be there for your son to vent to and to confide in.  And support him.  I guarantee this situation strengthens the bond you have with him.  Every kid needs a stable, reliable parent.  The tricky part is to offer your support without saying anything bad about your XH or his wife.  Don’t make excuses for them but it’s important to not add your own opinions of them into the conversation.  As much as an idiot as your XH is being, and as frustrating as the situation is this is still your son’s father.  And he’s figuring out what a tool his dad is on his own.  Just be supportive.[/quote]

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