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[quote=Anonymous]OP— I was once exactly like you. All I can tell you is what saved me, and that is meditation. Meditation is the act of observing your own thoughts and feelings without judgment. Just noticing. The more I took time to do this, the more I saw how my own brain worked, the patterns I’d been blindly following for years, and most importantly, the ways I felt about all of it. Stepping outside of myself in this way helped me to find out what I really liked, wanted to be, and why life was worth living. Once I was able to see myself more clearly, I could also see others more clearly (instead of projecting my own thoughts/feelings on to them). This is what helped me to finally find my own people, and to realize that my own people are everywhere. Meditation doesn’t work for everyone, but just thought I’d share my experience, in case it does for you. Good luck OP. I hope you find what works for you.[/quote]
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