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[quote=Anonymous]OP - just saw your post in the other forum. I haven't read through all of this but agree with much of the advice above - including finding a pathway to leave your parents' home.

I very much feel for you.

I'm going to share my thoughts on one angle.

Please try to go seek out group activities in your area where you can both try new (or return to old) things to see what you like and meet other young people who like those activities. There are running groups, hiking groups, travel groups, cooking classes, arts classes, sports classes, dance etc.  These steps will help you learn what you like to do - help you build your self identity and your confidence. And hopefully will allow you to meet people and begin to build some relationships based on common interest. This is how most relationships are started and maintained.

Don't listen to the person that said people don't have many friends anymore - that happens because it is easy to get walled off in your own world and let old relationships drop off....it doesn't have to be that way. The more you get out there and know what and who you like - you can put in the work to maintain relationships with people (and learn to avoid the toxic people in life).

I'm pulling for you!! [/quote]

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