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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Np here.  when reading the post the flag that came to me was grandma.  She sounds pretty dramatic to me.  And being that she is your mom, OP, I am sure she has a huge influence on your perspective too.  Have you asked DH about the feeding situation from his perspective?  Seems like we only heard it from your mom.

Your mom needs to mind her own unless she sees some real abuse here.

This is your marriage, not your moms.  I think you are looking at things pretty realistically. I don't think you are in denial.  I think some of these posters live in la la land and are in denial that life is not all roses. Your DH does not sound like an abuser to me.  He sounds like an overwhelmed human being who needs to sit back and take some deep breathes.[/quote]

I'd be far more interested in thinking about the feeding "situation" from a 3 yr old girls' perspective.

Her dad already did a whole year of ineffective therapy for anger issues and refuses to do more.

What does life feel like in her body, family and home?

The 3 yr old has no control or say in what goes in her mouth, greeting her grandmother or what play equipment she uses at the park. When that kid blows, it will be epic.

OP, this is not how you want to raise your kids so why are you making this choice daily? What is it that is keeping you "stuck"?[/quote]

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