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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The resentment builds to a breaking point. You realize you are running out of time and don't want to spend what is left of your life with someone who causes you pain or stress.  I envy the posters who married their best friends and remained in love. [/quote]

I married my best friend, but I will say the "same annoying habits" are amplified once the kids are gone. When you are too busy to notice the little stuff, life just keeps moving. When you have 100% full focus of time on the weekends and evenings, the little stuff seems to get more annoying. You don't over look it.  On top of that, perimenopause hormone drops  amplify the annoyance (and full menopause...I'm not there yet, but it's coming).

I'm sure the solution here is to spend less time together, but he really loves me and wants to do everything together.

So then I have to take a time out and sing to myself, "Me, I'm the problem its me."  I probably need an estrogen replacement. I'm going to talk to my doctor at my next physical

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