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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP. My exDW broke our family to be with her AP. I've always wondered what I would do if she came to me and said they were moving in together or getting married.

Our kids are a little older than yours and I have contemplated this thought a lot. The vindictive side of me makes me think that I would blow up their relationship by going public about how they met and cheated on each other's family for a year before breaking up the two families.

But the father in me is guiding me and now the second one of my kids told me that they did not want to spend time with them, I'd lawyer up and go to court for sole custody. Plus in VA, I think at the age of 14 a child can go to court and ask the judge to grant their wish to stay with one parent. Maybe see how it goes and if the child ever mentions that they are not comfortable or don't want to go to their house, then be ready to ask the ex that for the kid's emotional needs, you need the kid to be with you full time and he can have access to them whenever, for dinner/movies/play dates etc. [/quote]

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