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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When my wife gets angry with me she insists she's going to sleep on the couch. I usually go down at some point and talk her into sleeping in our bed.

I don't know if she imagines it's punishing me somehow to sleep on the couch, but from my perspective it's just giving her a bad's night sleep because of something, allegedly, I have done.

I'm happy to agree to a non-speaking truce and stick to my own side of the bed so that she can give me the silent treatment AND also get a good night's sleep.

The last couple of times I've made the offer but haven't wholeheartedly lobbied her to follow through. I have no idea what she thinks is being accomplished by sleeping on the couch, but I guess if she feels its making some point she can do it...[/quote]

This is so odd.  Of course the person who did something wrong is  happy to have a truce and never talk about it again.

Instead of living in some kind of stalemate, just own up to whatever you did to hurt your partner, apologize, and try not to do it again.  Not every argument has to be this long drawn out thing that takes days to resolve.  [/quote]

This.

Unclear who that PPP thinks he’s fooling. Maybe only himself.[/quote]

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