Reply to He canceled our date

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "He canceled our date "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The biggest factor I consider early on in a relationship is whether the other person prioritizes our relationship. I've met many women who were online dating but not willing to make the time to prioritize dating. Lots were single moms or women pursuing advanced degrees that wanted to date but I felt didn't have the time.

That didn't make them a bad person (quite the opposite) just a bad fit for me at the time. It is weird how so many seem to judge people in these stories as good or bad people when they just have differing priorities.[/quote]

In the early days of dating you don't have a relationship. You're going on dates to see if this is someone you want to have a relationship with.

But you *do* have a (personal) relationship with your kids. You do have a (professional) relationship with your coworkers and your job. So prioritizing those makes sense.

And cutting loose some stranger who thinks he should take priority over your family or your career also makes sense. Cutting you off from the things that matter to you is [b]an abuser move[/b].[/quote]

Not a reasonable assessment in this situation.

If OP has a family & a career, then maybe dating relationships are not wise to pursue at this time.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics