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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m divorced. I have two kids. I’m wealthy, good health (physical, mental), post grad education, have a good to great drama free coparenting relationship with the mom. I’d say I would be a decent catch for most 40+ women who are done with or not interested in more kids. Except that I do want more kids.

I do not want to get married again but I am not closed to the idea.

Yep. I do want to have a couple more kids. I’m very involved with my current kids (50/50 coparent 100% involved) and feel a lot of pride and joy in being a father.

What is the best way to go about finding a partner to have kids with? Ideally we live together as a loving couple and raise the kids as a family (preferably not married, but I’m open to the idea ) but I am also completely open to an arrangement of sorts where we split custody and raise them 50/50.

Obviously barriers are my own age and the fact that I already have kids. How do I overcome the rejections and find potential women who may be interested in someone like me and something like this. [/quote]

Why don’t you look into fostering?

I have known 4 men (including two relatives) that all had children, divorced, and then got remarried and had more kids or had more kids with a LTP.  I’ll be honest.  All of their first sets of kids became an after thought.

Their new wives made them prioritize their second set and it hurt their relationships with the first.  Two have grandchildren from the older kids who they hardly see and aren’t involved with because they have younger kids.  I am sure people have successful
Children at all ages, but the men I know were all also older when they had their second sets of kids.  [/quote]

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