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[quote=Anonymous]I think the problem is that you’ve de facto established that furnishings are her thing. So she both was annoyed at you overspending on “her” budget and also felt fine spending a ton on things she felt were needed. I think you should talk to her about the $500 limit and probably also go through Fair Play together to formalize the domains you each take care of and set a budget for them if needed that the person in charge of them gets to spend as they wish but the other person has to clear large purchases in that domain. So if you do yard stuff, your wife splurge at the nursery unless she talks to you but you can spend $6 on someone to take down a diseased tree without mentioning it to her.[/quote]
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