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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]			I won’t go to meetings unless I’m being paid or know what it’s about. It has served me well in life. I won’t participate in a relationship with someone who uncorks, then expects me to say “okay” because they said “counseling”. Husband can go to whatever counselor he likes. You can join him or not.

My gut reaction is that this is a gender flip, or he’s about to tell you he did something illegal. I’d be furious at the marriage counseling suggestion, unless you did the illegal thing with him, you are under no obligation to stand by or support him. 
All this to say, whatever you did or didn’t do op, you don’t need to be treated this way and I wouldn’t. There is only so open anybody can be before it becomes a detriment. As I tell my kids “I love you, I care about you, of course I’ll have an opinion on what you’re doing”. Same goes for my husband, there are certain things I simply don’t want to be involved in and since my husband is an adult, I am not obligated to put up with secret squirrel nonsense. This is what your husband is doing and he’s setting it up so you are accepting blame. F**** that. [/quote]

Wow, this is a pretty hostile response.[/quote]

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