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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is NO ONE listening to the Jewish people on this thread? [/quote] Customs don't trump rudeness . [/quote] But it's not rude if it's the accepted norm in the culture/religion of this ceremony. This isn't a birthday party--it's a very very important religious ritual to specifically observe a child changing into an adult. If you're offended it's because you can't look outside your own ideas of how YOUR culture does things. But that's ridiculous. You'd probably be offended if a Muslim came over during Ramadan and turned up his nose at the lovely food you offered. This is a religious occasion and I bet a zillion dollars that none of the "offended" PPs are Jewish. If you and/or your DH want to decline the invitation, go right ahead. Nobody is saying you have to go. But it would be very ignorant to nurse a grudge over this. [/quote]
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