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[quote=Anonymous]OP, obviously you and your family can do what you want, but please understand that your friends did not intend to slight your daughter at all.  As others have said, the bar mitzvah party is usually considered a party for two groups --13 yo friends of the BM boy or girl (many of whom are there without parents) and friends/relatives of the parents.  Sometimes if there is an older or younger sibling the family will invite a few kids of that age to hang out with the sibling.  Other non-relatives are usually not invited except for very close friends who may be included as a whole family.  Many people do not invite their friends' kids unless they are close with the BM kid, which is obviously the case with your son.  Because this is the totally normal practice, your friends would not think that this was something that would upset you because undoubtedly it has happened to them many times and they think nothing of it.  (and having gone to many of these, 9 year olds with no buddies to hang out with usually do not enjoy it at all).  [/quote]

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