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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We have discussed timelines and wants throughout our entire relationship. We became pretty serious at 6 months and he brought up marriage. He said I love you for the first time and told me he was in love with me. At 1 year, he brought up marriage again. He told me flat out that he wants to marry me and build a life together and needed to know I was on the same page. We discussed moving in together this month. We both own our own condos and I will be moving in to his. My plan is to rent it out mine until I feel it’s right to sell. I do think a ring is in the near future. When discussing engagement, he said that it will happen when it happens and that moving in together and seeing how we cohabit is the next best step. [/quote]

I think this is fine as long as you look at is as YOU auditioning HIM.  I mean, you are 29.  If this guy isn’t the one, you only have so long to figure that out, break up with him, and find a more compatible man.  If you feel like living together will expedite that process and help you figure things out, then go for it.  
Personally, I think you should just end it now.  You can find someone who is excited to be with you and not doing this whole thing where he needs to make sure you are good enough for him.  [/quote]

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