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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah divorce avoidance isn't the goal. People get divorced because because one or both of the people involved are self centered and never put the relationship as #1. As crappy as your ex was to cheat, it sounds to me your career ambitions were #1, but you were putting your career first. It sounds like you continue to focus on career and finances, as if you could perfectly engineer a theoretical marriage. It also sounds like your girlfriend is also currently career focused. Who are you two actually going to be when married? People don't just conveniently shift their entire set of priorities and expectations, their dreams just of marriage. You can think your future self can, but you're just putting that on someone who doesn't actually exist yet. [/quote]
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