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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can speak only for myself, but I dare say that the feisty comments from the working moms is reaction to OP's reference to "moms who wish they could be SAHMs."

I believe each family makes that decision based on what's best for the family. It has to do with complex number of factors surrounding resources, time, job flexibility, personalities, on and on.

I do not think that a SAHM is lesser of a person than a working mom or vice versa. For example, I've known smart researchers who took a break from their career because the cost of childcare is so high that it just does not make sense. And it doesn't all have to be about $$. If my child had special needs, I would certainly prioritize that over my job.

OP's comment had inherent bias and judgment, and that is what feedback she will get.

I also work in a male dominated field.
My colleagues and I get along well and work together well.
I've had male and female mentors, and in turn mentor males and females.
No chips on my shoulder.
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Yes, but I think someone mature and secure in their own decisions aren't coming out swinging at OP by insulting all SAHMs. They are the commenters who are just pointing out that what OP said is rude and that she should just focus on the skills she brings to the table. [/quote]

Exactly, remember candidates are probably interviewing @ 3-5 different places going thru 3 rounds each, and hiring team are meeting 6-8 candidates. And you have 30 minute each, every minute should be about skill, fit and pay, and not about why you did what with your life before.[/quote]

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