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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, I think it's worse when a woman cheats, especially if she is married. So far I've known two women who cheated on their spouses. Both our aunts.[b] One woman cheated a lot with a lot of different races.[/b] Different ages different everything and then left the spouse and went to another country. The other is still with the spouse but she has cheated for the past 20 years with the same man. And a man I'm talking to just casually says he has cheated on his wife before he his ex-wife with a married woman who didn't want to use protection with him. She let him put it everywhere.[/quote]

Is that somehow relevant???[/quote]

It's why so many cheat even if they have a very good looking spouse they still have sex with: variety.  Some have a compulsion/mental illness to continue to seek that outside validation and 'different' for dopamine hit. It says absolutely nothing about their spouse or state of the marriage. It's an individual problem--though they will never admit that--this personality/mental case will always justify it and blame it on anything else but themselves.[/quote]

Well I think you are assuming “good looking” spouses are having sex. They are not having sex or it is very infrequent. [/quote]

Oh, yes, you know everyone’s bedroom situation. Men like that—high frequency, get anyone they want attractive with opportunity are doing it all the time.  It hands me a laugh when the wife gets pregnant—that’s the one time, right? These men think twice a week many years into a marriage is low-to none frequency. Of course they tell the AP they don’t sleep with wife -or the AP just assumes it is like her situation and never bothers to ask. They certainly aren’t offering up that they spoon the wife and still have weekly sex—no AP wants to hear that. He has to pretend AP has a real chance with him. It’s why she hangs on so long.[/quote]

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