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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD13 doesn’t have school tomorrow and is going home today with a new-ish friend and a couple other friends. They are going to see a movie. This morning DD asks if she can spend the night, that a sleepover has suddenly been planned and all of the girls are sleeping over. The mom is ok with it. No brothers in the house. Mom will be home the entire time. I’ve never met the mom in person, but I’ll shoot her a text. Would you be comfortable with this? They live about a mile away. [/quote]

Yes, this is the how it works at this age.

How is "no brothers in the house" relevant to anything?[/quote]
OP here. I don’t think it matters but I put it out there because I assumed someone would want all the facts. You know DCUM.

Thanks for your reply! 
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It's not in any way relevant to the question you posed, though. It was a strange thing to mention.[/quote]

No it wasn’t a strange thing to mention, PP.
You’re being obtuse to feign cluelessness about why it was mentioned
About 98% of all sexual assault is perpetrated by males. Assault crimes require opportunity. For a potential predator, Opportunity and vulnerability is created when young girls are sleeping in the next room.
Does this mean that a brother is necessarily a predator?
No.
But don’t be obnoxious by pretending you have no idea why that extraneous detail would be mentioned
Some parents simply prefer to eliminate opportunity rather than attempt to assess the nature of the boy in question.[/quote]

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