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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you come at him like that? It’s very accusatory. How about he honey, could you please put your plate in the dishwasher when you’ve finished? [/quote] What's your recommendation on how I should have responded?[/quote] Can you read?[/quote] OP, the post you responded to HAD a suggestion. As long as the plate was basically clean what he did was fine. Have you always had anxiety issues or a tendency toward OCD? It can become much worse in perimenopause. You may want to treat it with meds and/or CBT. What you describe can lead to divorce and pretty estranged adult kids. What you are claiming HE does is what YOU do. Can you see that? The energy/emotion behind your behavior is a YOU problem and may benefit from medical treatment. Sounds like a tense and shitty childhood over what? A clean plate sat on a couch briefly? Get help, OP. I grew up with an anxious and controlling mother and it sucked. [/quote]
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