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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband went through this after he lost almost 100 lbs. He was shocked and euphoric about how random people noticed him after the weight loss. I told him to go to therapy and learn how to channel his emotional impulses and not weaponize them against me or I would divorce him. Only ultimatum I’ve ever given him. I didn’t even expect him to propose- that was his idea.

He did. Things are better now.[/quote]

Wrong thread maybe?[/quote]

Not in my opinion, PP. People who cheat or fantasize about cheating always harbor significant insecurities.

For example, look at the posts bragging about cheating and getting away with it. “Look at me! Look what I did!”

It’s a cry for attention and a sign of neediness.

I remember another child’s dad tried to lure me into something at a kids’ party a few years ago just before the pandemic and it was the same motivation. It was a dare. “I bet I can get her to…”

I literally overheard him say this to other dads when I went to find my child to bring him home. The party was ending.

It’s pathetic.[/quote]

Oh yeah- so agree. And thought the sane thing of that smug nasty cheater.  Proud of something so gross. [/quote]

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