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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, he's trying.  Focus on the sweet, then slowly and quietly change things back.  Trash can is easy first change.  Printer can go in a cabinet?  Things like switching the desk - you can say after working for a week or so you need to face other way for light.  Same with lamp.  Just do it slowly so it feels more like you are settling in.  [/quote]

First, congratulations on your new job. It sounds like your husband is trying and what he did was sweet, even though it wasn’t your taste. I agree that you should slowly change things back to how you like them them or want them. [/quote]

If he’s too fragile to have an actual conversation with, so be it. But I don’t see why she should have to keep things the way she doesn’t want for any length of time. If the thesis is that he can’t be expected to notice enough about the work she’s done to be actually thoughtful or take her preferences into consideration, I don’t know why we have to assume he would notice/care if it all changes back right away. [/quote]

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