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[quote=Anonymous]In our marriage, I am allowed to decide how I will interact with family (whether mine or in-laws), my husband is allowed to decide how he will interact with family, and we jointly decide how our children will interact with family. The no will *generally* win. I think it's good that you agreed not to let your mom be alone with your child anymore. I think you also need to let your husband decide that HE no longer wants to interact with her. She was incredibly rude and disrespectful towards him, and it doesn't sound like she has ever acknowledged/apologized for what she has done. I imagine that she continues to treat him like that, hence why he wants to have nothing to do with her. He may also be upset that you seem to have moved on and let her off the hook for what she did for him. It would upset me if my husband downplayed something like that that had really hurt me, especially if I had never gotten an apology/things hadn't gotten better since then. [/quote]
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