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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. My mom is tolerable in small doses. She’s a very hateful person. I just know cutting her off means cutting my father ( who is wonderful) off. He will side with her and it will become a big email issue. My brother cut her off and he no longer speaks to any of us because of her. [/quote] Zero babysitting. None. Your DH is right about that. Slow roll time with her and meet sep with your dad, if you can. When she starts being hateful, shut that sh-- down. If you're going to say "XXXXX about so-and-so we're leaving. THat's my DH's mom." And follow through. I'd also just lay it out for them: I want to see you both but these behaviors (be specific) are dealbreakers and if they continue we will not be seeing you. Tell them it's not up for discussion. Then it's on them. [/quote]
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