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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’s not safe to watch your kids. Cutting her off will result in serious drama… I wouldn’t tell anyone she’s not allowed to watch the kids, but you and your DH should make sure it doesn’t happen. You need serious boundaries. There’s a big spectrum between cutting someone off and using them as a babysitter and you need to be somewhere in the middle of that. [/quote] This. She's never alone with the kids. Diving deeper. I'm concerned for you. Adult children of abusive parents often end up with an abusive spouse. And your DH seems to be more about winning than being supportive of you and protecting the kids. Foy you for right now agree to mom doesn't babysit. Then you read up on healthy boundaries in relationships.[/quote]
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