Reply to Dating and exclusivity

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Dating and exclusivity "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman here and still very curious to hear from men/PP who said they wouldn’t commit to exclusivity before sex. 
How many women do you tryout, does sex actually differ from woman to woman or there is usually one you like most and have sex with her? If a woman won’t do BJ in non -exclusive situation do you discard her as “bad in sex”? How do you navigate that logistically (do you tell women you are busy while you sleep with others)? 
And how soon does this elaborate tryout process result in selecting “the one”? 
[/quote]

Dated a variety of women following my divorce. Some started talking about  exclusivity on the first date. That comes across as desperate.

Of the women I slept with, it was typically on the third or fourth date, after STI tests. That said, exclusivity doesn’t mean that a long term relationship will result. If the sex is lousy or other issues emerge, it can be over after a month or less of sleeping together. [/quote]

This is very confusing: STI test implies sexual exclusivity. It’s recommended to take it 3-4 weeks after your previous partner. Did you run to take the test after first date if you liked the woman? Or you showed one STI test to several ladies and slept with them in parallel? 
And yes, I don’t talk here about GF/BF exclusivity - this is just desperate to expect after a few dates, and I wouldn’t commit myself until after a few months together 
But I want to be safe having sex [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics