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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If this is hooking up why is it an issue? If you want a relationship then let him know that so you're exclusive. Say you won't have sex without a relationship. [/quote]

Do men respect this?[/quote]

NP. I don’t really understand the question. As a man with fairly permissive views on sex, I have no expectation for any woman that she would have either a more casual or a more restrictive take on sex in or out of a relationship in general, or with me in particular. In respecting all women, I say they should make their own choice about what they want irrespective of my feelings on the matter. [/quote]

That’s evasive as hell. The question was not what the women want and feel. Are you saying you don’t feel like restricting your urges in a relationship or dating regardless how a woman feels ? Do you tell that to your female partners upfront that you will make your decisions irrespectively of her boundaries ? [/quote]

Evasive? Your questions imply just you didn’t understand anything I wrote. As I said, I don’t get the question. My “respect” for a woman is not contingent on the choices that she makes regarding her behavior as long as those choices are honestly conveyed. I may not personally go along with her choices, and yes, some of them may be dealbreakers, but bringing “respect” into it implies making character judgements about the person. But maybe the PP meant “respect” as in “go along with” and then I’m not sure what’s being asked. [/quote]

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