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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe it's different for boys but my DD13 is one of the top students, if not the top. If she isn't, people generally think she is. This is not a school with lots of impressive, striving kids. She does well socially. She is also involved in several extracurriculars. Maybe that helps.

I would hesitate to label his social issues as a result of his intelligence. Think about what else it could be. How does he act? How does he treat others? My kid is far from perfect, but she's easy to get along with and very confident. If someone comes up to her and says, x is mad at you or y has a crush on you, or whatever. She's basically like, cool. She doesn't feed into any drama. Consider how your son might be interacting. [/quote]

I wouldn't say the social issues are his. He's funny and fits in well from what we can see and what his teacher claims. But he's got a thin skin, for sure, and a lot of stories he relates to us are more teasing than bullying, imo. So, what I'm really wondering is when the [i]teasing [/i]ends and everyone will leave him alone.[/quote]

The teasing ends when he stops reacting so satisfyingly to it. They are teasing him because he has a thin skin and they get a big reaction, not because he is smart. If he weren’t they would tease him about something else.[/quote]

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