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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, people want to marry their equal. Their equal in education, ambition. Their career equal. Are you expecting a better educated, higher earner than yourself? You shouldn't. If you insist on finding an unequal match, on making that your priority, you are ikely to end up with a spouse that doesn't respect you. Won't respect you as an equal. That's harsh. Harsh to say. But you need to start from that point-of-view. [/quote] That is not what men want. No one needs to marry themself. They already have themself. [/quote] Guy here and I agree. I know plenty of really smart woman that don't have degrees, and plenty of stupid woman that do. I don't judge a woman based on her education. Ambition, don't care. Passion, care. Career equal, don't care. Happy and good person, yes. Perfect matches don't have a universal checklist. And a checklist doesn't dictate how much a person is respected. [/quote] You care about . . . passion? What does that even mean? Passion for what? For how long? What if they're 70 and in failing health? What do they need to be passionate about? How old are you? I'll wait for your explanation but . . . this seems patently absurd on its face.[/quote]
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