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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think a party is the forum to get into these issues, but you also don't have to lie. You can say, "things have been a bit difficult, if you are interested, let's get coffee sometime and catch up."[/quote] I know this is unhelpful but if someone I did not know said this to me I would be absolutely paralyzed with not knowing how to respond appropriately. Like, it is rude to say 'no I am not at all interested and will never reach out to coffee'. If you feel the need to say something like this, then I feel it is on you to then 'say the next thing' that takes the pressure off the other person. Because in my head I now HAVE to ask what's up. You need to take on a question here. If I could suggest I think something like 'it has been a lot lately but way too much to talk about here! how about you, did Susie do alright in her game on Sunday?' [/quote]
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