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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m also in the thick of this OP and definitely agree with the advice to get things in order before proceeding. You have information that he does not and you should be using it to prepare for the worst case scenario.

Maybe you want to work through things and maybe you’ll decide you want to move on. But the right thing to do for yourself AND your children is take this time to prepare for a worst case scenario and to take time to step back and think instead of rushing to confront

I have known about my DH for months now but I’m still gathering paperwork, talking to lawyers, forensic accountants, PIs etc.

I’ve also found in these past few months that I’m liking my life more without his usual level of influence. I no longer care what he thinks or about babying him or smoothing over situations to appease him. I feel more in touch with my old, pre-marriage self and am finding I like that woman a lot more than the one I’ve become to appease him.

If you’re going to go through all this fuss, it may be worth spending a couple thousand dollars to hire a PI and figure out what’s really going on once and for all. [/quote]

Wise words, thank you. It just sickens me to think taking these steps and what worst case would look like  - literally have no appetite, can’t sleep - but it’s the right thing to do.[/quote]

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