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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m guessing by this point you can count the number of times you’ve slept together on one hand over the past two years, is his affair partner really such affront?

What you could do is have a non-accusatory conversation where you discuss the realities of your union, you mention the beautiful life you’ve built together and if you could get some promises that some things would remain the same going into the future maybe you would be OK with having a more familial relationship with your husband? You may even find you like each other better because the pressure is off to provide those facets of a marriage you no longer find appealing.
This doesn’t have to be a bad thing. [/quote]

Np and this sounds crazy …but not.
We don’t have a lot of sex these days (neither of us seems that into initiating) but my DH and I have a good marriage, a great friendship and love our family of five that we’ve created! Soon all 3 kids will be out of the house and we definitely enjoy each other’s company but I don’t know if the sex drive is there for either of us.  I’d probably be devastated if he were having an affair but only bc I’d be emotionally jealous. 
But if he were to tell me “it’s just a sex thing” AND it was with another married woman, I’d probably be able to get past it. It’s an ego thing though. Not sure I can be okay with him wanting to be with another woman even physically. But I recognize that maybe he needs it more from somewhere!
I would mourn our companionship and our life together if we divorced though. No one makes me laugh the way he does.[/quote]

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