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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Meant to say she has been depressed and avoiding, not divorced and avoiding.[/quote]

Maybe.

If she has been depressed it is a reasonable excuse for her to have actively avoided you in the past.
For many people, going through a divorce can be life-altering in a very negative manner.

I would take this time to catch up w/her & just see how things go.[/quote]

She has always taken break ups very hard. She had 3 very serious boyfriends previously who didn’t marry her and she was devastated by them. I thought her husband was so good for her and she would get her happily ever after but it didn’t work out that way.

When she is in a positive place, she is amazing, so much fun and an absolute joy. When she is mad, she gets scary mad and her silent treatment can be ice cold. I’m a friend who lives out of state. We have always lived in different states since childhood. It seems like she has been in a bad place since her divorce. I have tried to be there for her, encourage her, check up on her, give her space, try to see her, wish her a happy birthday, try to see her during the holidays, etc. Not sure what more I can do.[/quote]

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