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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A break is a break

And 10/10 he’s just trying to get back at you

Don’t feed into it, asking for a break is the first steps of an official break up.

If that’s not what you wanted then I wouldn’t of threatened it.

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I view a break as a time to pause and think about things. I didnt even want an official "break" just for my own space back so he wouldnt be in my tiny apartment for a few nights.[/quote]

I think this is reasonable OP and my husband and I took a week or so break like this when we were dating. In our case it really helped to diffuse some tension and get some clarity to move forward and constructively resolve the issues.

We called it a “break” (not a break up) and the key thing was we had the same expectations about it - it was not a break up and not an opportunity to see other people.

It sounds like you and your boyfriend were either not on the same page OR he just doesn’t care. Either way, he’s shown his true colors and it’s time to move on.[/quote]

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