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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a woman whose DH was like this, couples therapy was the only way out. He had a lot of resentment of me, justified and unjustified. Now we are intimate several times a week again.[/quote] Dcum needs a heart button for posts like this. How long did it take to turn around? [/quote] A few months and we are still working on it. I think sometimes what the higher libido partner has trouble with is that we have to make sex enjoyable for the other person in the way that THEY find enjoyable, especially if you want sex more frequently than they do. That power differential is uncomfortable. My husband basically wants to lie there and enjoy himself first, then take care of me, and he wants absolutely no deviation from that routine or everything falls apart for him and he can’t perform, especially at his age. I’ve come to accept this because I want sex nearly daily and I still like it.[/quote]
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