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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I settled.  I was taught you aren't going to get everything so if he meets 51% of your criteria, that's good enough.  He was gentle, kind, stable.  Or so I thought.  Five years later, after two kids, I learned of his lying and deception.  I stuck it out for the kids.  Five years later, he has taken off his mask completely and become emotionally abusive towards me.  I stay because of the kids.  He is mentally unstable but he is a therapist so he will get 50/50 or so I fear.  I don't need his money. I outearn him.   I need my kids to be protected.  I have 385 weeks left. I am doing the best I can.  [/quote]

Watching their father abuse their mother is a horrible way to grow up.

It will undoubtedly scar your children!s ability to choose a healthy partner/relationship.

Please stop saying you are “staying for the kids.”

That decision is damaging your kids. [/quote]

There may be safety issues re: the kids alone with DH 50% of the time. Sometimes there are no "good" choices. [/quote]

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