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Reply to "Desperately need DH to step up and it isn’t happening "
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[quote=Anonymous]This isn’t a guy who is going to take his custody time. Figure out your finances and get him out of the house and divorce. Can your mom move into your house and you rent the ADU? That seems like it could be a quick way to get money. It was insanely unrealistic for you to think your husband would step up and make more. I’m a person with one kid with a rare genetic disorder that causes profound ID and the other kid had cancer. It was insane, but I chose to outearn the problem. Figure out which appointments the nanny can take — which I realize may not be possible, but I would try. As an example, my kid did 16 months of chemo. She went every week for blood work. We knew her bloodwork would be fine Week 1 and Week 3 so the nanny did those. We did chemo days and week 2 when she might need platelets, etc. My nanny also did a ton of the PT, OT, DT, ST appointments. We didn’t need to be at all of them. I wish you the best.[/quote]
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