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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for all the replies; even the ridiculous ones. Like a PP, not sure why affairs are a common theme in the comments on this board. Really weird fixation, if you ask me. Anyhow. That’s enough of that.

My partner makes good money - $200k+ annually, but is constantly worried about money, and has not made saving a priority. Maybe I was looking for validation that my gut was right, that marriage and mingling finances would be a bad idea.

It’s a shame. We are in love, and they care for me in ways I’ve never experienced which is really, really fulfilling. Not sure they would be open to long term dating.

Thanks again, internet strangers. The levity is helpful and the AP comments are comical. [/quote]

Being in your mid 50’s and not making saving money a priority while making $200k a year would be a big problem for me. That is simply bad decision making. If you do want to get married get a prenup to protect your savings plus force the person to develop a budget and savings plan. If this person is hoping to live off you make it clear that that won’t happen. [/quote]

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