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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would definitely give her the bigger bedroom. Especially if it has built-ins that she likes. Most people will find this crazy, but I have one child (dd) and live in a 2-bedroom condo. DD has the primary bedroom (larger, walk-in closet, dedicated bath, door enclosing the entire area, set off from the rest of the living area). DH suggested it when we moved in and I thought he was insane. He was 100% right. The poster said girls hang out in their rooms with friends was spot on. For 5 years now, DD can have multiple friends over and they are more or less out of my hair. They have enough space to be comfortable in her room and do whatever they want in there (dancing and yoga are quite common). And this means that the living room, kitchen, dining areas are mostly adult space for me and DH. And they can be noisy and it doesn’t bother me because of the extra door. You will be glad if you give her the bigger room. [/quote] I think your perception is colored by only having one kid. What about OP’s son, and when he has friends over? They should each get one of the smaller bedrooms, and make the large main-floor bedroom into a fun playspace for both kids.[/quote]
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