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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's really sad that everyone jumps to ASD just because an 11-year-old isn't all that into video games. They're really boring, people. I don't blame him.[/quote]

It's not the lack of interest in video games that makes me wonder about autism. It's the difficulty finding (other) common interests or being able to make conversation about anything other than a special interest.

I have two kids, one autistic and one not. Neither is particularly interested in video games. But the difference in their ability to make friends and talk to others is worlds apart. And the OP's description of her son sounds more like my autistic child than my allistic (non-autistic) child.[/quote]

What? My son doesn't have a special interest. He has tons of interests, they just don't involve video games. And yes, his teachers confirmed that's all his classmates talk about during lunch and recess. Why is no one suggesting THEY branch out?[/quote]

NP. Because they’re not the ones who are unhappy and unable to connect with friends?[/quote]

Ignorance is bliss, I guess. Is that where we are? Saying the kids obsessed with video games are just fine because they're happy?[/quote]

Hmm. I mean, that’s up to their parents, right? If your kid is the one who’s unhappy because no one shares their interest, I don’t think it makes sense to demand that other people’s (seemingly happier, more included) kids should “branch out” to the topics your kid is interested in. You kind of have to work with what you’re given. [/quote]

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