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[quote=Anonymous]NP here…

1. To the person commenting about a job not allowing Bluetooth, I have a client that is a major chemicals corporation.  They have a big safety culture and really emphasize things like - no looking at your phone while you are walking, no distracted driving (ie, Bluetooth), etc.  To the point that if you are in Finance and walking down the hall (not a plant) on your phone, >50% of the time someone will say something to you.

2. OP - I’ve had several couple friends go through divorces recently.  One factor in these scenarios is that one spouse is not happy with whatever the other spouse does - it was literally never enough and the goalpost kept moving.  What do you really want? Do you want to pick up the kids or do you want him home for family dinner?  Pick whatever it is and LET HIM DO IT HIS OWN WAY.  Do you respect him?  Do you think he is smart and generally makes good decisions?  If so, let go and assume that he will make it work vs assuming if he doesn’t do it exactly your way that he is a bad guy and you can’t trust him. Start from a place of yes.  When you stop being on your spouse’s team, the spouse will tend to pull away.[/quote]

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