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[quote=Anonymous] You seem a bit unhinged, op. My husband also works longer then expected sometimes and no he can’t just hang up on the boss. I don’t know why he couldn’t talk and drive, but what I don’t understand is why you didn’t just go get the kid you wanted home so badly since you had the ability to do it. I don’t understand that. It’s not like you couldn’t, you just plain didn’t want to. If it helps, daycares are easier on dads then they are moms. When daycare has had enough, they will tell him. If you are worried they will lay into you, your husband now does all daycare pickup and drop off. Strange that you bring up your background, really op, nobody gives an f. This is a you problem, and not really a problem as you could have seen your husband was on the phone, thank your lucky stars he works from home (that wasn’t an option when our oldest was little) and go get your kids. You can also quit work, that’s one way to not have to deal with daycare again. Your husband didn’t break your trust, op. He was working and you clearly know that. Just as daycare is rough on moms, work isn’t. Women can get by with saying “Gotta get my kids” in a way men just can’t. Women can also quit work indefinitely in a way men cannot so it balances out since balance seems to matter to you. Boomer alert, but you guys seriously have no idea how good you have it and yet you still fight about the same s**** my husband and I fought over fifteen years ago. Why? There truly is no need for this, and there really isn’t a need to imply that you can’t trust your husband until the end of time. You need help, op and help isn’t announcing a bunch of psychobabble and saying “This is how it is”. Nobody cares, nobody needs to put up with it and in time your husband won’t either. [/quote]
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