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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think she got him into drugs. I am sorry.[/quote]

I doubt that. She is a brilliant student and a major scholarship holder. [/quote]

That's a positive.[/quote]

That, among other things, is a troll flag. Ivies only do need based scholarships. So if she has a scholarship at the Ivy they both attend it just means she comes from a family who needs financial aid. She may very well be brilliant, but having a need based scholarship isn't the proof of that.

The other troll flag is all the calls about cooking. Most of the Ivies are residential for all or most of the time at the school. Even Columbia is 90% on campus housing. Most dorms don't have cooking facilities that support producing "restaurant quality meals". Maybe by senior year, but that's apparently when the calls stopped.

Troll better OP.[/quote]

Wow, how do people become so sanctimonious in an anonymous forum?

My son's girlfriend comes from a low-income family. She is studying on a need-based scholarship, and her GPA remains consistently at 4.0 even by her senior year, which I consider academically brilliant.

My son has been cooking as a hobby since he was 16. He prepared gourmet cuisine at home during high school and his freshman year (due to COVID closure), and continued to do so in the dorm/apartment since sophomore year, where there was always access to a kitchen. He primarily utilized the kitchen in his Club House for his sophomore year. What calls do you think stopped in his senior year?[/quote]

Read your OP - you say the calls to you stopped in December 22, which I guess is technically the middle of junior year and through senior year.[/quote]

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