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Reply to "The man I'm dating told me he'd like me to stay home after kids, I don't want to do that."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you feel about him otherwise? Marry him, don’t take his last name. Have kids if you want them and things might work out - either he will find that he’s not such a great provider, or you find you like staying home. It’s unwise to build your life on maxims. If you wait for a perfect man, perfect circumstance, perfect timing to have a family you might never have it. [/quote] What's unwise is getting into a situation you know you don't want with someone who's basically telling you they plan to be an ATM machine. What do you think will happen when OP realizes she doesn't want to be a housewife but is stuck with a man who doesn't want to do anything around the house? OP already says that having a family at the expense of her lifestyle might be not worth it.[/quote]
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