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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am sure if you divorce your DH will take that opportunity to be around seedy individuals - but who is to say he is not doing that now?  Can you talk to an attorney about this, and your rights?  I agree that you should try for alimony.  Does your DH hold a decent job?  If so, are there decent chances he will stay in his job (especially given the porn at work thing)?

I just can't imagine putting my head in the sand with someone that freaks other people out - and with kids involved (no matter the age).  Your DH has to get his shyt together, but he is not your responsibility. No matter how he tries to guilt you out.  You are not responsible for him and whatever happened to him.  I can't imagine taking on this baggage, and to constantly have to worry about it. Wouldn't it be a huge relief not to?

Surely you are marketable for a skill that would garner a paycheck? You have to value yourself more than this - this is just gross. This is not a healthy grown man acts. Is he stopping you from having friends (because of his behavior)?  Your DH seems to be having a detrimental effect on you - obviously not just himself - but you and your kids entire lives.

Are you getting therapy?  Is he getting individual therapy? Are the kids?  Who is helping them? I am thinking you are depressed to be putting up with this. [/quote]

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