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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To PP - your doctor is wrong. Again, not everyone has herpes, based on publications above and my own experience. It’s easy to test at any lab no pcp visit required, and at least you would know if you shed virus and can  protect your partner, if they are negative. I absolutely wouldn’t want to receive oral sex from a partner who’s having an oral herpes until that relationship is a few months in, committed and established. I wouldn’t want to have ONS with untested partners for that reason alone. 
No need to call nuts anyone with opinion or sexual behaviors that’s different from yours. About half white men I dated were positive to hsv1 and I continued dating them. A good half were negative to both viruses. Many people acknowledged having breakouts and we took precaution so I remained negative. I would hate if my partner didn’t feel a need to disclose. It could be asymptomatic to some people but very painful, acute and cosmetically noticeable for others. [/quote]

Look, insurance will not cover a test for hsv-1 unless you have an outbreak or other symptoms. This is why doctors will not test. There is literally no way that every man you’ve dated got tested for hsv-1 because it’s industry (and insurance) standard to not test for it. Most people do not know they have an hsv-1 infection for this reason: no symptoms, no history and no tests.

I, for one, asked my doctor to test me. She refused. I moved on. I assume I have it because I’ve been exposed a bunch of times, but I’ve never, ever had a cold sore. Most people don’t get them.

I’m saying you’re crazy because you are. You are obsessed by a common condition that most adults have, one that is so common that it’s not tested for. (I’ve sent you numerous articles stating this fact, but you chose to ignore them.) And then you make up lies about all the men you’ve ever kissed somehow bypassing insurance and doctors to test for it.  Get help. You need it![/quote]

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