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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have excellent communication, clearly stated boundaries with personal accountability, and the structure in your relationship to make this work I think it’s fantastic. I love my husband dearly. He cannot fulfill everything I need. I do have platonic friendships that fill in some of these gaps, but would love an arrangement like this (with his blessing). [/quote] Honestly, I feel extraordinarily fortunate having my cake and eating it too while still maintaining my own sense of integrity. Some PPs may consider me a cheater, but DH doesn’t and that’s really all that matters.[/quote] For any of the PPs who have/want situations like this, what are these needs that can’t be met by the one person you’re most connected to? I know everyone may have their own highest priority, but I’d like to understand something more concrete about this since the majority of marriages don’t seem to have this hole. (Or they live with it and don’t fulfill it). [/quote] For me I’m not filling a hole, I’m enjoying icing on the cake. So instead of one man making me feel loved/appreciated/heard/beautiful/etc., I have two.[/quote]
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