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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][/b]What is completely lacking in your post is any love or feeling for your ex-husband, glaringly so.
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You want the lifestyle again. Your envisioned single girl life was t the Shangri-La you thought it would be.

You still don’t care about him at all—just your vision of grandkids and travel.  Now you don’t have the funds to travel and have to split time with the grandkids—w/out a yard for them to play in. [/quote]

+1 he’d be a fool to take you back since even after the divorce, you take him for granted. No talk of missing him.[/quote]

My god, some of these responders are cruel. You have no idea why OP divorced and she isn’t saying that she wants her ex back, she is saying that divorce stinks and majorly shakes up your world. A failed marriage doesn’t mean someone didn’t love the construct of marriage. It doesn’t mean that even in the best case divorce scenario, seeing your kids only 50% of the time isnt gut wrenching.

OPs husband could have cheated on her. He could have lied to. He could have had a gambling addiction that bankrupt the family. He could have been a narcissist. Or they could have just been at each others throats all the time and raising their kids in a toxic environment. Why do you assume the worst about OP? Seriously what is wrong with people here?

I’m sorry for what you’re going through OP. Divorce is a major loss in so many ways. Are you talking to anyone about your grief? Maybe connecting with other people who are also recently divorced? Spending time with family or friends who can help cheer you up while you’re not with your kids? [/quote]

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