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[quote=Anonymous]Why can’t you hire help? Signing documents for a parent at a nursing home is usually time sensitive. He may not have the time to explain that to you or the inclination. Having her in a nursing home is a lot of help that many people don’t have. As far as being late for picking up kids, if you are in reasonably good health, you either have to do it yourself, hire a caregiver to do it, or rely on community members to help if you have that. Have you tried to negotiate a decrease in travel with your employer? That might be the biggest issue here. Something to consider. In this day and age, unless you are presenting at conferences, there is usually a virtual option. And if you are presenting, you can negotiate for a decrease in travel while your DH is doing what he has to do. Marriage is compromise. If you let resentment in, be prepared to divorce. It’s happened over much less, and if you are already at resentment, that’s not a good sign.[/quote]
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