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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DW filed for divorce and she said we should tell our 2 kids 13 and 10 that WE are divorcing. I think she should tell them separately that she is divorcing me. Why do I have to protect her after she cheated and filed for divorce? [/quote] Well, one thing you should NOT do is weaponize her behavior with them. They don't need to know the details. Although I think it's fair for you to tell them to ask her if they want to know "why." They'll deduce it on their own eventually. Don't be the bad guy and give them TMI. -- Signed, another father whose whore of a wife cheated and I took the high road with the kids. Now they're in college and their relationship with their mother is more fraught and ours is solid. Not that it's a competition. [/quote]
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